Most of us know that a few marriages/relationships are like your worst nightmare. You end up in hell. it's because some couples lack compatibility, and stars play a crucial role here. By using the ancient Indian art of kundli (birth chart) matching, can help you find out if yours is a match truly made in heaven.

One can minimise the Intensity of Negativeness by seeking to Vedic Astrology. If you have already come across a groom for your lovable daughter but as a parent having bundles of worries about her future please seek immidiately by calling me, S. V Varadharajan @ 9841092968 and get the horoscopes compared.

There are certain points, besides the 10 poruthams (points of match) those are to be considered in depth. As i have discussed in the Home page of this website about the codes, There are certain codes in Vedic Astro, defined by the planets (unique in every natal chart) that starts to function only when the command "Marriage" is executed. I have seen many case studies where before marriage the inlaws seemed to be like Devadei and their house would have seemed like Vaikuntam (Abode of the Lord) But after marriage the same Vaikuntam is felt as Yama's (Lord of Death's) Court. This is because of the role of planets as per the chart. When you happen to meet someone, divinely speaking the horoscopes of the two actually influences each other. Depending upon the compatibility you perceive and also you leave impression in the mind of the other person. So Seek for guidance as Marriage is a vital decision for Lifetime.

You may ask, my parents never matched Kundali or horoscopes yet are living as though they were made for each other. Yes ofcourse God Blessed them. The time and place each one of us are born is different. And the Time alone determines the Grace upon individuals.

Our Indian Heritage reflects, the Marriages in India were once upon a time strictly based on Horoscope matching. Astro comparison was considered as a shagun or auspicious. People lived in joint families then and every ritual were celebrated with dedication and involment of every member from eldest to youngest. The would-be girl first wedded the would be partner's family mentally before wedding her partner spiritually and ritually. The culture was living for all with devotion and Compassion. Every tradition were attended to meticulously and this made the place as Heaven. This is why it was once said that marriages are made in heavens. But do we get to see the same today? Some may wonder, does such tradition of Joint family still exist on earth! The Next Generation may ask perhaps, Joint Family ? Whatzatt ? Strange. Isn't it?

Time has changed. Love marriage and Arranged Marriage were the only two known types of marriages but, now it appears the types of marriages can be classified as Lust Marriage, Contract marriage, Living together - Why name it marriage?, Marriage for Divorsee ( Also for those who have multiple divorse cases) etc. Wont these lifestyles have painful repurcations later on? It does. Not only on the inviduals but also on their Generations ahead. Children learn from parents or elders.

The trend that is observed by me is that, only after getting hit back from life for the actions ( those which were once in the Fantacy seemed so to be Real ) the youngsters happen to wake up so late. By the time they will be between the devil and the deep sea. Their life on one hand is full of worries and miseries and sufferings while on the other hand for few, they dont even have any welwishers to console them either.

While you are reading this if you think you are one of such victim of Life and Time, Please Dont worry. I am not a critic its just an effort to spread awareness. Everything does not End where your mind feel it must End and start where you wish to. The show must GO ON and goes on. Seek me for restoring harmony and peace in your life. Find Solutions from the celestial.

This may not be the same with all. Everything was as per the guidance of elders. They sought the family and gave you the assurance that, we feel you will be very happy with this family. Dear parents its your daughter's life not a game for chance. Have you lived with them all your life every second 24/7 to be so sure? I am afraid, please dont mistake me. I just wanted to say please take care. This is a world where own brothers back stab for unperceivable reasons. After few time of living and knowing them your daughter and your family should not repeant when all will be seeming like OVER. Still dont worry you can seek for solutions if your life has left you in a similar crossroad. You can seek me to resolve problems and get your life back to track knowing the celestial grace for you and what life in actual has in store for you.

Every Horoscope is a case study in itself. What i have mentioned is just a gimpse. There are several varieties of marriage related problems. These problems are reflections of your karma and the karma of the ancestors whom you represent. All the countable and infinite problems can be corrected with the grace of the Divine.

 

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I Share with you the Saptapathi rites as we happen to witness this tradition mostly in North Indian Weddings that involves taking seven steps walking around the fire. According to Hindu Law codes [Yalgnavakya Smrithi], completion of the seventh step is the moment of completion of marriage for all legal purposes. The Conscious within each one of us represents the fire. As fire is for light as well as destruction so is conscious.The Saptapathi rites reflects beautifully in 7 verses, each for the Bride and Groom the true meaning of Marriage. Marriage is a commitment to live for each other throughout the Journey of life. These 7 steps must be known to every individual who are about to marry or already in the journey with their better half. This is why, I share here the graceful heritage of our Bharatha traditions for each step they say a manthra as follows:

Step 1. Groom: "My beloved, our love became firm by walking one step with me. You will offer me the food and be helpful in every way. I will cherish you and provide for the welfare and happiness of you and our children".

Step 1. Bride: "This is my humble submission to you, my lord . You kindly gave me responsibility of the home, food and taking charge of the finance. I promise you that I shall discharge all responsibilities for the welfare of the family and children.


Step 2. Groom : My beloved, you have now walked the second step with me. Fill my heart with strength and courage and together we shall protect the household and children.

Step 2. Bride: My lord, in your grief, I shall fill your heart with strength, In your happiness, I shall rejoice. I promise you that I will please you always with sweet words and take care of the family and children and you shall love me alone as your wife.


Step 3. Groom: My beloved, now you have walked three steps with me. By virtue of this, our wealth and prosperity are bound to grow. I shall look upon all other women as my sisters. Together, we will educate our children and may they live long.

Step 3. Bride: My lord, I will love you with single minded devotion as my husband. I will treat all other men as my brothers. My devotion to you is of a chaste wife and you are my joy. This is my commitment and pledge to you.

Step 4. Groom: My beloved, it is a great blessing that you have walked four steps with me. You have brought auspeciousness and sacredness into my life. May we be blessed with obedient and noble children. May they be blessed with long life.

Step 4. Bride: My lord, I will decorate you from your feet up with flowers, garlands and anoint you with sandal wood paste and fragrance. I will serve you and please you in every way.

Step 5. Groom: My beloved, now that you have walked the five steps with me, you have enriched my life. May God bless you. May our loved ones live long and share in our prosperity.

Step 5. Bride: My lord, I share both in your joys and sorrows. Your love will make me trust and honor you. I will carry out your wishes.

Step 6. Groom: My beloved, you have filled my heart with happiness by walking six steps with me. May you fill my heart with great joy and peace from time to time.

Step 6. Bride: My lord, in all acts of righteousness, in material prosperity and in every form of enjoyment and divine acts, I promise you that I shall participate and shall always be with you.

Step 7. Groom: My beloved, as you walked the seven steps with me, our Love and friendship became eternal. We experienced spiritual union in God. Now you have become completely mine and I offer my life to you. Our marriage will be for ever.

Step 7. Bride: My lord, as per the law of God and the Holy scriptures [Vedas] I have become your spouse. Whatever promises we gave, we have spoken with pure mind. We will be truthful to each other in all things. We will love each other for ever.

By these seven steps you have taken with me, you have become my best friend. I will never move out of this relationship. God has united us in this bondage. We shall perform all activities together with love and affection and with good feelings. Let us be friendly in our thoughts. Let us observe our duties and rituals together. If you are the lyrics, I am the music. If you are the music I am the lyrics. If I am the heavenly body You are the earthly world. While I am the life source and you are the carrier of the same. I am the thoughts and you are the speech. When you are like the words, you work with me who is like the meaning of it. With your sweet words, come with me to lead a prosperous life begetting our progeny with children.